You can move higher in life. But you cannot do it alone. You need other people to help you climb the ladder of success, the ladder of love, the ladder of happiness, the ladder of health.
We are happy when we are growing. No one wants to remain in one place. We are always moving. We are always looking for the best opportunities to improve our lives. It is important. But, as I mentioned above, we cannot do it alone. We need help from other people.
You must start with yourself. You must help yourself to help other people. You must better yourself before you can help other people.
“If you want to grow, you must bring out the best in yourself. And if you want to maintain your growth, you must bring out the best in other people.”
To reach your dreams, to make your life a masterpiece, you must help other people reach their goals. Help other people get better. Help them bring out the best in themselves. Help them connect with their inner selves.
Great people bring out the best in other people. There is no greater success than that. Help people do what they think they cannot do. And also help them do what they think, believe they can do. When you do that, you will never walk alone in your life. And you will never lack helpers. Why? Because you have paid your price.
We can make ourselves happy. But it comes with a price. Are you ready to pay the price? If you are ready to do it, here is how:
Do not ignore the ordinary things. According to Walter Dudley Cavert, “Happy you are if you have eyes to see the ordinary things that should give you joy!” Finding happiness is about focus. You get what you focus on. You attract what you focus on. You bring into your life what you focus on. So to bring good things into your life, you must focus your eyes on the ordinary things.
Do not be afraid to do what you love. Success, happiness comes from doing what you love to do. When you do what you love, it brings happiness into your life. It motivates you to do more, to achieve more, to face your fears, to respond to those who don’t believe in you. In the words of Joseph Murphy, “Find out what you love to do,then do it.”
You should never stop improving yourself. We are happy when we are growing, not when we are dying, not when we are wasting our lives. If you want to get better at what you do, if you want to make yourself happier, if you want to change your world, you must improve yourself. Christian D. Larson said, “… you must improve yourself before you can better your life.” Remember that learning is never enough. The more you learn, the more you know. So if you want to better yourself, your life, you should never stop learning.
Happiness is not about where you are today. Happiness is about how you live your life today. Happiness is about self-control. It is about self-discipline. Do not mess up your life. Do not focus on the negative side of life. Focus on what makes you happy. Be kind to yourself. Be kind to people. Enjoy the things you have. Stop focusing on what you do not have. No matter what is going on in your life right now, always look for the blessings. It is there. And when you focus on positive things, you will have more positive things to enjoy. Why not do that for yourself?