Tag: Change others

It Starts With You

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Everything starts with you. Change starts with you. Life starts with you. If you want to change the world, it starts with you. Change yourself first before changing the world. If you can’t change yourself, how can you change someone else?

Before you take care of people, you must first take care yourself. If you want to please people, you must first please yourself. That is the only way to a sustainable growth.

When you grow, the people around you will grow. But if you don’t grow, if you don’t make any move to change your life, nobody will do it for you. It starts with you. If you lead people, you are always the one to take the first big step. If you don’t take it, nobody will do it for you.

If you want to change your life, you are the only one who can do that. Don’t wait for no one to do it for you. It starts with you. Take the bold step, and your life will change forever.

It starts with you.

Transitioning is…

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Whether we know it or not, we are transitioning everyday. We are changing everyday. Why are we transitioning? Do we really like to do it? Why is it important?

Let us face it. No one likes to change, to move, to do things in a different way, to move a way from our friends, to change school, to change course, to change our shoes, yes, our shoes. We don’t like to transition from one place to another. Why?

Because it is difficult. Transitioning means you have to give up your old ways of doing things. It means you have to do things in different ways. It means you are growing. It requires you to leave your comfort zone. It requires you to move from one city to another city. It means you have to forget the past and embrace the future. It means you are developing. It means you are adjusting. It means you are transforming. It means you are adapting.

If transitioning is so important to our growth and development, why are people not transitioning?

People don’t like to transition or to change the way they do things because they are afraid of the unknown. They don’t know what to expect. They know that it is very emotional, very stressful, very uncomfortable, and it takes longer time to complete.

“Transitioning is Changing.”

In order to grow, you have to get comfortable with change. Transitioning is changing. If you want to transition or change to a complete different thing, start by believing in yourself that you can do it. Then start. Surround yourself with people who will lift you up. Surround yourself with people who have gone through the same process. Talk to them. Focus on ‘why’ you are changing. Don’t listen to what people are saying. They are irrelevant. What is necessary is what you are doing- changing. Even if it is not working out in the beginning, don’t give up. Keep trying and believing in yourself until you succeed. And you will.