Tag: Believe

Who Are You Seeking?

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William James famously said, ‘Since you are like no other being ever created since the beginning of time, you are incomparable.”Yes, you are incomparable. Because there is no one like you. God created you to love yourself, not to compare yourself to other people.

Love yourself. If you don’t have the courage to love yourself, who do you think is going to love you? Nobody. Don’t spend your precious time looking for that person who will do everything for you, who will make you happy, who will love you. There is none out there.

Don’t look for that person who will be with you when things are bad, be with yourself. Don’t look for people to blame when things are not going your way, blame yourself.

Look, my friends, before you reach out to people for help, reach out to yourself first. Because everything you are looking for is already inside of you. Whatever you are looking for, you already have. All you need to do is to just believe in yourself. Believe that you are in charge of your life. Believe that you are not going to waste your life trying to please people.

You are not here to please people; you are here to create your own life. You are here to set your own standards. You are not here to live by other people’s standards. And to do that, you must detach yourself from the crowd. Don’t follow the crowd. Do your own thing. Follow your own path. Do not let people define your life for you. Define it yourself. Be comfortable with yourself. Because if you are not comfortable with yourself, you can’t define your purpose in life.

So to be really successful in life, you must define success in your own way. Because success means different things to different people. Whatever it is that you are pursuing, you must take charge of it. If not, you will lose it.

Give Yourself Time To Stop Worrying And Start Living

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Give yourself time to love and play, and to stop worrying about what you cannot change. People worry about everything. Allow yourself to worry, but don’t make it a habit. Worry is worry. It cannot change anything.

Whenever you find yourself worrying, replace it with love. Worry cannot make your life better. Whenever you are faced with something, don’t worry yourself about it, face it with action. Think about what you can do to change it. Only action can change your life.

You can do something about what you are going through in your life. No matter how bad, stop worrying about it, do something about it. When you do something about your problems, when you do something about your fears, you will see that they are smaller than you think they really are.

No problem is bigger than you. Whatever you are facing in your life right now, use it to get to the next level in your life. Don’t let it set you back. Let it spring you forward.

Why do we worry? We worry because of fear. We don’t trust ourselves. We don’t believe in ourselves. We don’t even know what we are capable of doing. When something happens to us, the first thing we do is to run to other people for solutions. My question for you is: Do you think other people can fix your problems for you? Do you think they can change your life? Do you think other people have the power to stop your worry?

No one can help you. Because no one knows you better than yourself. That is why no one can do for you what you cannot do for yourself. Believe in yourself. If you want to change yourself, you must believe in yourself. Do not ruin your life with worry.

When you are faced with something, don’t worry about it, take it as an opportunity to grow, to stretch your mind. Whenever you catch yourself worrying, allow yourself to worry, but know when to stop and start living.